If you are like me the thought of discipling your family can feel overwhelming. I’ve heard it said, “The thing that stops us most is the start.” Not knowing where to start can definitely keep us from starting something. When you are not sure where to start with family discipleship, you may never actually be intentional with it. The truth is though, it is easier than you think. Here are three things you can do to begin discipling your family today:

1. Talk about the gospel at dinner

I have mentioned the importance of eating dinner together before, but it is worth a mention again. Use this time to your benefit. Ask each other what God is showing and teaching you. Pray together for the meal, needs, and the lost (by name). Discipleship is more than just teaching someone facts about the Bible. Not sure where to start with family discipleship? Eat dinner together and talk about the gospel.

2. Read the Bible together

This doesn’t have to be complicated. Use a translation that is easy for your children to understand or use a good children’s Bible. We have used “The Jesus Storybook Bible” (aff. link) for years now. I think we are on our third copy of it now. It is the only children’s Bible that keeps the attention of all of our kids (5 years old through 11). It is fantastic and I always HIGHLY recommend it to families.

I especially love the way it uses every story to tie in the theme of redemption and point to Jesus. I have even given it to students who are new believers, but do not know the “stories” from the Bible. Read a passage, or chapter and then talk about it. Ask what the passage says about God? Ask what it teaches us? The important thing is to be in the Word and do it consistently. Not sure where to start with family discipleship? Read the Bible together.

3. Admit when you fail

This may seem strange to include, but I think it is essential. If we are to cultivate a culture of discipleship in our families we have to model repentance and forgiveness as a family. Out of the three, this one may be the hardest to actually do. It is one thing to say, “I’m sorry.” It is another thing altogether to apologize and ask for forgiveness. Not sure where to start with family discipleship? Admit when you fail.

What about you? What are you fears and struggles when it comes to where to start with family discipleship? What would you add to this list? Leave a comment and share!

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